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Discussion » Questions » Family » Is it okay to spank a kid so hard that they cannot sit down?

Is it okay to spank a kid so hard that they cannot sit down?

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Posted - October 8, 2016

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  • 4243
    What do you think?
      October 8, 2016 9:39 PM MDT
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  • 3156
    I would say no. Also, if you're having trouble finding the spanking groups, I'd be glad to help you. 

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      October 8, 2016 9:49 PM MDT
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  • 2833
    ROTFLMAO!

    Guess you told him/her!
      October 9, 2016 1:41 AM MDT
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  • 4402
    I'm gonna submit my answer as a "no."


      October 8, 2016 10:28 PM MDT
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  • 14
    no i certainly do not or would ever endorse that sort of punishment totally wrong and abusive there are spankings and there are spankings and that sort where they leave the victim with a bruised bottom and unable to sit down as unacceptable forms of discipline
      November 1, 2016 4:50 PM MDT
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  • 4402
    Agreed!
      November 1, 2016 5:17 PM MDT
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  • 4243
    And what are the good spankings smiler?
      November 1, 2016 6:37 PM MDT
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  • 1041
    No, that's typically the point where the police would step in if the child can't sit down in school the next day.  When I was a kid I had a friend who was spanked that hard.  It ended with him going to be with foster parents.  Spanking like that doesn't end well.
      October 8, 2016 10:56 PM MDT
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  • NEVER!!!
      October 9, 2016 1:26 AM MDT
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  • 2833
    Generally no.  The only infraction for which corporal punishment (violence against a child) is appropriate is an equivalent act of violence.
      October 9, 2016 1:42 AM MDT
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  • 15491
    IT'S NOT OKAY. 
      October 9, 2016 1:49 AM MDT
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  • 2241
    On a hard chair or cushioned chair? 
      October 9, 2016 2:07 AM MDT
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  • 4243
    Is that supposed to be funny? Or clever? Because it's not.
      October 9, 2016 9:24 AM MDT
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  • 2241
    No, serious.
      October 9, 2016 9:52 PM MDT
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  • 4243
    It's again the Terms to tell you what I think.
      November 1, 2016 6:40 PM MDT
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  • 2241
    Oh, come on.. speak forthrightly.
      November 2, 2016 8:19 PM MDT
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  • 4243
    I think that if you beat your kids you're lazy, a punk and a bully. 
      November 3, 2016 6:24 AM MDT
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  • 2090
    Teachers in 'middle school' used canoe paddles on those 'badass' types. Some had holes drilled in them for more velocity. 
      October 9, 2016 6:44 AM MDT
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  • 2241
    So they got sent up the river.
      October 9, 2016 11:05 AM MDT
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  • 1559
    No it isn't!
      October 9, 2016 2:56 PM MDT
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  • 4177
    No that is called Child Abuse.
      October 9, 2016 8:23 PM MDT
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  • 5709
    no, thats cruel
      October 9, 2016 8:38 PM MDT
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  • 2241
    Reminds me of the Tootsie Roll commercial.  "How many licks does it take?"
      October 9, 2016 9:53 PM MDT
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  • 6
    The goal ought to be as little pain and risk of injury as possible.  Parents long ago would make graphic threats such as " ... until you can't sit down for a week." but they were in my case, fortunately, quite hyperbolic.  They did scare me, nonetheless.

    Any spanking that is going to work, works by inducing moral reflection on the conduct.  The behavior changing effects do not come from intense pain.  Other effects do come from intense pain and most, if not all, of them are not constructive.  So, the lighter and more symbolic, the better.
      October 11, 2016 10:25 AM MDT
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