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Is it better to end a relationship quick or should a speech and explanation be prepared?

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Posted - March 21, 2017

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  • 52905
    (quickly)
      March 22, 2017 12:06 AM MDT
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  • 7919
    Yes, dear, but I cannot edit because it's too longly.

    Care to offer an answerly?
      March 22, 2017 12:09 AM MDT
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  • 52905
    Itly dependsly only howly longly thely relationshiply hasly beenly goingly only: longerly onesly requirely morely effortsly. 

    (I'm going to kill you for making me do this, you must know that, right?)

    ~
      March 22, 2017 12:12 AM MDT
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  • 7919
    You heard it here firstly, folks! He's a killerly! Please tell me there's a member of law enforcement in the audiencely!?!)

    (Is that what happened to Grilly?) :o
      March 22, 2017 12:20 AM MDT
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  • 52905
    Not you too!  First Sapphie, then Liv, now you.  And to think that I gave your name to my defense attorneys as character witness number one. You're supposed to vouch for me, not join the other side.  Grrrrrrrrrrrrr. 

    :(

    (No tilde for you, turncoat.)
      March 22, 2017 5:42 AM MDT
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  • 52905
    P.S.  Grilly is perfectly fine, by the way. 

      March 22, 2017 5:44 AM MDT
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  • 17261
    Old pic!
      March 22, 2017 6:22 AM MDT
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  • 52905
    What?  It was taken three weeks ago!

    ~

      March 22, 2017 6:31 AM MDT
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  • 17261
    Do you want to think about that reply one more time?

      March 22, 2017 6:43 AM MDT
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  • 52905
    That's photoshopped. 

    Fake evidence. 
    :|
      March 22, 2017 6:48 AM MDT
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  • 17261
    Make the search for yourself: tineye.com
      March 22, 2017 6:50 AM MDT
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  • 52905
    My lawyers have advised me not to have any direct communication with my accusers. Please cease and desist from bothering me and instead contact them if you have any more lies to spew. 


    ~
      March 22, 2017 6:58 AM MDT
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  • 17261
    They won't distract me just because they are women... Oh, hey... how are you doing... ahem...

      March 22, 2017 7:13 AM MDT
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  • Depends on the two people concerned and the depth of the relationship. In normal circumstances it's only good manners to take time for an explanation. If one or the other is likely to turn nasty then quicker is better, possibly with an armed escort. :(
      March 22, 2017 12:31 AM MDT
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  • 14
    Read about Zoe on Blurtit.  My sympathies!  
      March 22, 2017 4:18 AM MDT
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  • Thanks, auxarcs. I read the thread, it was nice of everybody. Appreciate your concern.
      March 22, 2017 1:32 PM MDT
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  • I find a personal letter... Sent personally from a foreign country with no return address works best for me.

    Seriously though it depends on the relationship ... Had he earned respect? ... His personality, and what's best for him and what will ease him through the transition .. only you know the answers ... Good luck!
      March 22, 2017 12:39 AM MDT
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  • 17261
    Hmm. I'd say no matter how we prepare to deliver a message, the other will sense our tense. This is why a longer speech should be avoided. The anxiety build up until main message is delivered is only going to make it worse for the receiver. Present the message as sober as possible and offer an explanation if asked for. 
      March 22, 2017 2:49 AM MDT
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  • 10452
    I think there should be a verbal explanation and sometimes a visual explanation - like a power point presentation with grafts and pie charts to help point out why the  relationship won't work. Cheers!
      March 22, 2017 8:31 AM MDT
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  • 7919
    LMAO Love that idea.
      March 22, 2017 1:16 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    depends on the person and what relationship youre ending
      March 22, 2017 10:40 AM MDT
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