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A poll: How long has it been since you last felt sexually attractive or considered yourself to be sexually attractive? ~


A. It’s practically a constant state of being for me.

B. Never in my entire lifetime.

C. Somewhere in between #1 and #2 above.

D. Neither of the above/other answer.



Posted - May 21, 2020
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  • 5391
    E. What time is it now? This post was edited by Don Barzini at May 29, 2020 2:58 PM MDT
      May 22, 2020 6:22 AM MDT
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  • 7280
    Great minds sometimes respond in unison.
      May 22, 2020 12:57 PM MDT
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  • 5808
    Since i am not sexually active
    being celibate 
    it's been ages since
    i was in that place
    of sexual activity, or
    thinking i was sexually attractive.

      May 22, 2020 7:40 AM MDT
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  • 52952

     

      Being sexually active and considering yourself sexually attractive are not mutually inclusive of each other. The question is only about the latter. 

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      May 26, 2020 12:14 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    A.  I've been told it is a vibe or a look I have.  I don't mean to be.  I just am who I am.
      May 22, 2020 12:34 PM MDT
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  • 52952

     

     I know, right?




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      May 29, 2020 1:08 PM MDT
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  • 5455
    A. It’s practically a constant state of being for me.

      May 22, 2020 12:42 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    So sorry you p Randy D'evil....I can't answers this question honestly at the moment....as living in the country alone with my partner ,means I still have countless bales of hay to roll in....:( 
      May 22, 2020 2:11 PM MDT
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  • 7919
    I think I have attractive moments versus it being a constant state. I usually get my boost when I get dolled up to go out. It's those moments that I feel the most attractive. But, since that's been out of the question lately... IDK... I guess the latest was from setting up a new dating profile. I woke up to several hundred new likes that accumulated in the first night. That always seems "fraudulent" though. Would those people still find me attractive IRL? Or are they all swiping right on everyone in the hopes of getting laid? And does it matter if all those people swiped if none of them actually care about anything other than the pics/ looks? Sigh. That brief glimmer of attractiveness it gave me was promptly replaced by a gross I-feel-like-a-slab-of-meat feeling.
      May 24, 2020 10:08 AM MDT
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  • 52952

     

      Subconsciously (or not), don’t you think it’s possible that in posting the particular photo(s) that you selected for the dating website, you instigated the vibe that those men picked up on?  I doubt you posted your worst photo(s).




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      May 25, 2020 12:17 AM MDT
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  • 7919
    What vibe do you think they picked up on, exactly? lol My main pic is literally the same pic I use on LinkedIn. It's a selfie pretending to be a professional headshot. There is nothing remotely sexual about it. The others are a mixed bag ranging from makeup-free pics through dolled up ones. 

    FWIW, the likes I got on that site are normal for a woman. It wasn't anything spectacular. Virtually every woman who puts a profile up with pics gets that kind of response. You could probably create a fake profile with no pics at all and get a few hundred likes in the first day. 
      May 25, 2020 10:59 PM MDT
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  • 52952

     I’m not saying it was or might have been remotely sexual on your part as the sender, but you know how men are. We perceive practically everything a woman does as being remotely sexual or overtly sexual, partially because that’s how WE look at everything. An attractive photo, a pleasant photo, a welcoming photo, any of the above is the provocation they needed. 

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      May 26, 2020 12:11 AM MDT
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  • 1893
    It is not what I think, which would be between A & B.  It is what my partner thinks, she thinks I am pretty much there all the time.
      May 27, 2020 8:23 AM MDT
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  • 7776
    "B." would be my answer. I've never, ever felt that way about myself. There's a lot of knowledge in this big head, but no actual way of applying it for the foreseeable future. This post was edited by Zack at May 29, 2020 2:10 PM MDT
      May 27, 2020 8:32 AM MDT
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  • 16256
    A lot depends on the company. To my better half, A. To everybody else, B.
      May 27, 2020 9:41 AM MDT
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  • 6098
    Obviously during sex and as well when someone shows any interest in me. 
      May 29, 2020 12:42 PM MDT
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  • 52952

     

      Mmmm, good answer.




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      May 29, 2020 1:12 PM MDT
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  • 44231
    A.
      May 29, 2020 2:11 PM MDT
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