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Is it okay to spank a kid so hard that they cannot sit down?


Posted - October 8, 2016


  • What do you think?
      October 8, 2016 9:39 PM MDT

  • 4843
    I would say no. Also, if you're having trouble finding the spanking groups, I'd be glad to help you. 

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      October 8, 2016 9:49 PM MDT

  • 2830

    Guess you told him/her!
      October 9, 2016 1:41 AM MDT

  • 14
    no i certainly do not or would ever endorse that sort of punishment totally wrong and abusive there are spankings and there are spankings and that sort where they leave the victim with a bruised bottom and unable to sit down as unacceptable forms of discipline
      November 1, 2016 4:50 PM MDT

  • And what are the good spankings smiler?
      November 1, 2016 6:37 PM MDT

  • 1760
    No, that's typically the point where the police would step in if the child can't sit down in school the next day.  When I was a kid I had a friend who was spanked that hard.  It ended with him going to be with foster parents.  Spanking like that doesn't end well.
      October 8, 2016 10:56 PM MDT

  • NEVER!!!
      October 9, 2016 1:26 AM MDT

  • 2830
    Generally no.  The only infraction for which corporal punishment (violence against a child) is appropriate is an equivalent act of violence.
      October 9, 2016 1:42 AM MDT

  • 17400
      October 9, 2016 1:49 AM MDT

  • On a hard chair or cushioned chair? 
      October 9, 2016 2:07 AM MDT

  • Is that supposed to be funny? Or clever? Because it's not.
      October 9, 2016 9:24 AM MDT

  • No, serious.
      October 9, 2016 9:52 PM MDT

  • It's again the Terms to tell you what I think.
      November 1, 2016 6:40 PM MDT

  • Oh, come on.. speak forthrightly.
      November 2, 2016 8:19 PM MDT

  • I think that if you beat your kids you're lazy, a punk and a bully. 
      November 3, 2016 6:24 AM MDT

  • 3520
    Teachers in 'middle school' used canoe paddles on those 'badass' types. Some had holes drilled in them for more velocity. 
      October 9, 2016 6:44 AM MDT

  • So they got sent up the river.
      October 9, 2016 11:05 AM MDT

  • 1544
    No it isn't!
      October 9, 2016 2:56 PM MDT

  • 6786
    No that is called Child Abuse.
      October 9, 2016 8:23 PM MDT

  • 14161
    no, thats cruel
      October 9, 2016 8:38 PM MDT

  • Reminds me of the Tootsie Roll commercial.  "How many licks does it take?"
      October 9, 2016 9:53 PM MDT

  • 6
    The goal ought to be as little pain and risk of injury as possible.  Parents long ago would make graphic threats such as " ... until you can't sit down for a week." but they were in my case, fortunately, quite hyperbolic.  They did scare me, nonetheless.

    Any spanking that is going to work, works by inducing moral reflection on the conduct.  The behavior changing effects do not come from intense pain.  Other effects do come from intense pain and most, if not all, of them are not constructive.  So, the lighter and more symbolic, the better.
      October 11, 2016 10:25 AM MDT

  • 5
    I'm not sure what point that would be at, because although I was spanked to the point that sitting hurt a lot (even the next day)-when my Mom told me to sit down, I knew better than to argue, and when my teacher told me to sit down, I knew better than to argue. I went to a school that paddled and supported parents paddling, though.
      October 18, 2016 2:33 PM MDT

  • 6
    In any legal, non-abusive spanking, there might be reminder sensitivities and twinges of soreness.  But, no legal one should provoke a true "inability" to sit.  That state is way past the non-abusive level.  The metaphor did scare all of us, for sure.
      October 18, 2016 10:50 PM MDT