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Did someone think you were gay?



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I love this parody of a Rihanna song (that I really like, too)



Posted - March 26

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  • 42366

     

      [I’m not familiar with the song nor with its parody.]
      Several years ago, a woman who was either bi or a lesbian told me that there was absolutely NO way anyone would think I was gay or could mistake me for being gay. She said I don’t give off any such vibe, and that in fact, the vibe I give off is quite the opposite.
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      March 26, 2021 6:07 PM MDT
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  • 18072
    That's funny! :) Doesn't really surprise me, either.

    (Here is Rihanna's song, "Stay")


      March 26, 2021 6:36 PM MDT
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  • 4112
    Yes, people assume that about me sometimes given my lifelong disinterest in dating or sex with girls, but I don't have any interest in sex because I'm asexual. Not people's first assumption, that's for sure. 
      March 26, 2021 7:10 PM MDT
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  • 18072
    (I have two friends who seem very similar to how you have described your asexual self, both here, and around the site at times.  I get your point. And, interestingly, with my having friends who are also asexual, when I might question, I almost first think 'asexual'  for someone  -- before other sexuality possibilities. I don't know if that made sense.)

    I admit I actually only made up a question as a reason to post the fun-to-me song. But thanks for your interesting answer!
    :)
      March 26, 2021 7:36 PM MDT
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  • 2229
    I respect you man. This post was edited by CosmicWunderkind at March 31, 2021 10:10 PM MDT
      March 27, 2021 6:09 PM MDT
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  • 1573
    yes because I didn’t ever have a boyfriend growing up but in reality I was just swapping nudes and sexting with older men I met online 
      March 26, 2021 7:19 PM MDT
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  • 18072
    Like I admitted to Nevan B - I just asked the question as an excuse to post the fun-to-me song. But thank you for your answer, a m b e r!

    I admit I got uncomfortable reading your answer. I hope you are, and were, okay.
      March 26, 2021 7:42 PM MDT
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  • 36029
    (I never told anyone.)
      March 27, 2021 9:34 AM MDT
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  • 42366

     

      I’m calling the police.

      

      ~

      March 28, 2021 6:45 PM MDT
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  • 36029
    Geez...I hope not.
      March 26, 2021 7:28 PM MDT
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  • 18072
    A very straightforward answer.  ;)
      March 26, 2021 7:36 PM MDT
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  • 7010
    No unless you mean gay as in happy and carefree then yes I get that a lot. Cheers and happy weekend!
      March 26, 2021 7:42 PM MDT
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  • 18072
    In reference to the posted song in my question, I meant sexually gay. But any gay is a good gay. Congrats!
      March 26, 2021 7:46 PM MDT
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  • 25818
    Yes.
    I am not and have never been a girly girl. So people made assumptions.
      March 27, 2021 5:05 AM MDT
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  • 18072
    "It can happen."  Ha! (as far as people assuming)

    :)
      March 28, 2021 6:38 PM MDT
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  • 17011
    I believe one or two of my neighbors may have thought that because one of the gals with whom I was friendly in my building and I used to go out to dinner and the movies on the weekends.  Neither of us had boyfriends at the time.  
      March 27, 2021 8:07 AM MDT
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  • 18072
    Thanks for answering, SpunkySenior. I admit I didn't even really ask the question to be answered so interestingly by everyone. I only asked it to share the song parody, ha! I don't' even know if anyone listened to either it or the original Rihanna song (posted under Randy D's answer).

    [ No, that does not mean to pressure you to listen, ha. :) ]
      March 28, 2021 6:37 PM MDT
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