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Fellows, just like me, did you begin charming the ladies at a very young age?



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Posted - Sat at 6:16 PM

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  • 10691
    You were always nerdy.


      September 28, 2024 8:02 PM MDT
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  • 53386

     

      THAT’S how I hooked them, it was my way in! They fell head over heels for me!
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      September 29, 2024 12:16 AM MDT
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  • 10691
    Too bad you turned out looking like this. 

      September 29, 2024 6:37 AM MDT
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  • 53386

     

      Grrrrrrrr. You’re just trying to scare off all your competition by making them think that‘s me. Reality check:

     


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      September 29, 2024 8:04 AM MDT
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  • 10691
    You're the one one the right?
      September 29, 2024 9:48 AM MDT
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  • 53386

     

     The guy standing in the middle. What are you on about this time?


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      September 29, 2024 12:05 PM MDT
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  • 548
    No, and I still haven't learned to at the age of 50. I don't know how typical my experience is, but it is rare indeed for a woman to show any verbal or non-verbal sign of interest in me in real life, even momentarily. Maybe three times in the last twenty years.
      September 29, 2024 2:50 AM MDT
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  • 2069
    Your family dynamically is part of you so we're your factored influenced. Bring 64 right now and having three older brothers and a tomboy older sister and a macho dad and neutral mom engrained in me a dynamic I don't want to be thwarted by emotional shananigans or mannerisms at all. I consider it a waste of time.
    Women are to be admired from afar for me that's all.
      September 29, 2024 6:00 AM MDT
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  • 3429
    Why do you think that is?
      September 29, 2024 7:19 AM MDT
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  • 10691
    Maybe they are too subtle for you to realize when they are.
      September 29, 2024 9:49 AM MDT
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  • 23410

    Nope.


      September 29, 2024 12:34 PM MDT
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  • 1493
    I thought I cursed myself a little in that regard after declining a girl’s marriage proposal when she and I were about 7. In the end, I’d say luck compensated for lack of charm. A whole lotta luck for a very big lack.
      September 29, 2024 1:04 PM MDT
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