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Discussion » Questions » Relationships » If you support someone a dozen times before they support you once is their one time support worth it?

If you support someone a dozen times before they support you once is their one time support worth it?

Posted - January 10

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  • 13089
    depends on what they did
      January 10, 2017 9:41 AM MST
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  • 3844
    If you only needed to be supported one time, then it's enough.  Friends don't keep count of how many times they support each other.
      January 10, 2017 10:08 AM MST
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  • 3653
    What if you needed it more but the one time was all you got?
      January 10, 2017 8:04 PM MST
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  • 3844
    Then you have to decide whether the relationship is worth keeping or if you're being used.
      January 10, 2017 9:33 PM MST
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  • 2318
    I don't keep score on how many times I give support or get support from people.
    Sometimes people need more support  more often then I do. But support either way is always most welcome.
      January 10, 2017 10:13 AM MST
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  • 3653
    What if you needed it more but the one time was all you got? ;(
      January 10, 2017 8:05 PM MST
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  • 2318
    I don't know because that hasn't happened yet.
      January 11, 2017 7:45 AM MST
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  • I wouldn't keep score but, honestly, if somebody needs propping up a dozen times you'd have to wonder if the effort was wasted. Surely, after the first couple of times, they should start to sort things out. 
      January 10, 2017 3:52 PM MST
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