No parent should ever have to experience burying his/her child. No matter the age. It is abnormal and is not the way things should be. But sometimes it's the way things are. Sadly.
I will share with you what I said to Jim a few minutes ago Sharon. Just between thee and me. I have never in my entire life wished ill to befall anyone at any time ever. Except for right now. And you know of whom I speak. A heart attack would do just fine. Not enough to kill. Just enough to disable for life. Maybe a stroke that leaves the victim with aphasia. Something. Anything. To shut him up! I am not proud of that but it is exactly true. The disgust and contempt and revulsion I experience because of he who shall remain unnamed is very tiresome and very boring and very predictable. I want to move on but I can't until that he whose name I will not say is silenced. SIGH. Thank you for your thoughtful reply! :)