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Why would you want to date someone who doesn't have a job?

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Posted - March 8, 2019
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  • 14795
    Yes ,if they were billionaires.....come to that ,I'd try and guess anyone's age if I was that bored ,employed or not...:)D 
      March 8, 2019 5:56 PM MST
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  • 976
    I wouldn't. 
      March 8, 2019 7:23 PM MST
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  • 7919
    NJ beat me to it. It's different if he doesn't have to work, either due to wealth or retirement. 

    I don't know if you've caught onto the latest craze or not, but a whole slew of men are not calling themselves "entrepreneurs" because they drive for Lyft. Ugh. Just as bad. 
      March 8, 2019 9:29 PM MST
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  • 19942
    I'm 73, so the likelihood is that I would be dating someone around my own age, which means he would probably be retired.  
      March 9, 2019 8:25 AM MST
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  • 14
    Does that mean you don't want to be a sugar daddy?
      March 9, 2019 8:29 AM MST
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  • 19942
    I'm a woman or didn't you get that from my reference to dating a man.  No, I don't want to be a Sugar Daddy or a Sugar Mommy either, so if you're looking, you need to look elsewhere. :)
      March 9, 2019 8:34 AM MST
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  • 14
    If they are intelligent, easy on the eye, and can support themselves, then why not?
      March 9, 2019 8:28 AM MST
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  • 46117
    When I dated, I was just looking.  I was not buying.


    I am open-minded.  I don't mind temporarily unemployed.  WHAT I DON'T WANT IS LAZY and SHIFTLESS and MOOCHY.
      March 9, 2019 8:30 AM MST
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  • I guess it would all depend on why they didn't have a job.  If they were self-sufficient without one .. sure.  But if they were looking for someone to support them or loan them money ... nope.
      March 9, 2019 9:30 AM MST
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  • I could date them, but if it were to go further, I'd expect them to get a job. I don't make enough money to support another person right now. 
      March 9, 2019 1:42 PM MST
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  • 9874
    Because then he couldn't claim he needed to work late.
      March 9, 2019 5:22 PM MST
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  • 22891
    cause i know what its like not to have a job since i dont have one
      March 10, 2019 4:00 PM MDT
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  • 1893
    A woman w/o a job was the 1st dis qualifier when I was dating.  The exception was a Trust Fund Baby, dated enough of them however.  Inheriting large bucks counts as being employed - aka they would not be a drag on my finances.

    Currently living with and co-parenting with one, is she does have a job however.
      March 12, 2019 8:29 AM MDT
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