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Did our crudeness and callousness drive Neelie away?

Posted - April 1, 2019

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  • 46117
    She was a tease.  She liked to invite that kind of stuff. 
     
    Look at her questions.  They were more for ADULT MUG.  She always tried to get people to talk about raw stuff that was very intimate.

    So?  If you can't take the heat, don't play the game.
      April 1, 2019 10:17 AM MDT
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  • 6098
    If there were anything sensible going on in AdultMug I would be there.  
      April 1, 2019 7:12 PM MDT
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  • 52952

      What do you mean?  You're at AdultMug all time, sensible or not.


    ~
      April 1, 2019 9:42 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    What has that to do with anything?   
      December 13, 2019 6:29 PM MST
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  • 44231
    You can probably find her in adult mug.
      April 1, 2019 11:49 AM MDT
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  • 52952

      She hasn’t been there for a couple of weeks. 
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      April 1, 2019 7:13 PM MDT
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  • 6098
    She has pulled up stakes and left but won't reveal why.  Partly I think a romantic adventure.  But each time she leaves I always feel guilty - like there was something I could have said but did not.  I criticized her (I thought gently)  for being too sensitive to Timmy's crudeness.  
      April 1, 2019 7:19 PM MDT
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  • 44231
    She has left before. Mayhap she shall return.
      April 1, 2019 7:28 PM MDT
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  • 6098
    I truly hope so. 
      April 1, 2019 7:33 PM MDT
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  • 44231
    OH...neither have I.
      April 1, 2019 7:27 PM MDT
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  • 17404
    She has a one-track mind it seems to me.  I avoid her mostly. This post was edited by Thriftymaid at April 1, 2019 7:39 PM MDT
      April 1, 2019 6:59 PM MDT
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  • 44231
    I disagree.
      April 1, 2019 7:03 PM MDT
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  • 17404
    I intended to speak only for myself.  Maybe I should have added to me to my statement.  
      April 1, 2019 7:08 PM MDT
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  • 44231
    Mayhaps. That works for me.
      April 1, 2019 7:09 PM MDT
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  • 52952

      I certainly hope not; she and I are friends. She often takes sabbaticals from AnswerMug. 
    ~
      April 1, 2019 7:15 PM MDT
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  • 6098
    Very true.  As she did from AB. 
      April 1, 2019 7:20 PM MDT
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  • I've known Neelie for several years. Beneath her veneer of gentleness, she's a tough girl, unlikely to be driven away by any "crudeness and callousness". Her reasons for her absence are personal, and totally unrelated to anything or anyone on Answermug. I'm afraid I'm not at liberty to divulge them. 

    I will convey to her the sentiments expressed in this thread, though how she will react to them i cannot say. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at December 13, 2019 8:45 PM MST
      December 13, 2019 6:22 PM MST
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  • 44231
    Mayhap she left when she saw you were here.
      December 13, 2019 8:48 PM MST
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  • 52952

      Why so cruel, Element?  Wisdom and Neelie know each other the best out of any two here in AnswerMug and even formerly on AnswerBag.  They have mutual friendship, admiration and respect for each other. To intimate that either one of them would have a problem with the other suggests you know something that I do not, orvthat you’re incorrect in your assumption. 

    :(
      December 13, 2019 9:22 PM MST
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  • 46117
    Our?  Do you have a mouse in your pocket or something. I don't drive anyone away. They drive themselves away and try to blame. Just like you are trying to do.  

    Guilt is a rope that wears very thin around here.  

    I hardly talked to her.  So, it wasn't me.  
      December 13, 2019 6:28 PM MST
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