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why do all guys want a crazy girl until i actually AM crazy

Posted - July 11


  • Sam

    That's only an issue if y'all get introduced to the family.
      July 11, 2019 7:10 PM MDT

  • 867
    The straightjacket covers your boobs.

    Sexy, but not functional.
      July 11, 2019 8:00 PM MDT

  • 2665
    I disagree.  I think you got that all backwards.
      July 11, 2019 8:03 PM MDT

  • 2638
    There's crazy-mad - the gal who loves her party-drugs, love and sex addicted, labile, volatile, often creative, highly neurotic.
    A codependent guy can get hooked on that cause he loves to be the rescuer, but such relationships rarely survive.

    There's momentary crazy-angry.
    Depends how crazy, how often - how tolerable it is.
    Also depends on how good the skills of resolution are. Relationships can survive anger if a pair fight fair, learn to understand each other and work to resolve their differences. But it takes deep love.
    A man who's only into casual won't stick around to tolerate anger. He'll be off chasing the next bit of amusement. 

    One kind of crazy-angry is a semi-permanent state for a very small number of women -
    paradoxically hetero but distrustful and viciously man-hating.
    Men wisely avoid it like the plague as soon as they detect it.

    And then there's crazy-fun - vivacious, energetic, good sense of humour, enjoyment of adventure - many young guys love that.

    This post was edited by bookworm at July 11, 2019 8:25 PM MDT
      July 11, 2019 8:22 PM MDT