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Randy D

What’s the quickest amount of time you’ve ever ended a love relationship*, and were you the one who initiated the relationship? ~

*Includes girlfriend/boyfriend, casual sex, marriage.
Excludes direct family members or distant family members such as siblings, parents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, children, grandchildren, cousins, in-laws, etc.


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Posted - August 11, 2019
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  • 4631
    I've never initiated a relationship.
    When a relationship ended it was always me who insisted on it.

    Shortest duration, six weeks - and that one was the hardest because I was deeply in love.
    I discovered that he had another woman.


      August 11, 2019 2:30 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    Thank God you found out then.  And not six years later.  
      August 11, 2019 4:38 PM MDT
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  • 4631
     
    I agree.

    But it tore me up with grief and depression
    The other woman had apparently been with him for some three years.

    For my part, I was never able to love as deeply again.





    This post was edited by inky at August 12, 2019 1:36 AM MDT
      August 11, 2019 6:21 PM MDT
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  • 6988
    Would this count? --------- when I was about 14, I started hanging out with a neighborhood chick. There was no romance at all. We couldn't communicate. I stopped hanging out with her after about a week. I decided that we were not a match. When she eventually married, it was to the son of a local wealthy guy. 
      August 11, 2019 7:46 AM MDT
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  • GRAMMATICALLY AWKWARD -

    Weak subject-predicate construction.

    Less confusing: How long was your shortest romantic relationship ...

    Sorry, but this means its over between us.     This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at August 11, 2019 4:16 PM MDT
      August 11, 2019 9:08 AM MDT
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  • 52936
    No, my dear. The specific focus of the question is more on you having ended the relationship than what you’ve stated in your example.  I will agree with you, however, that I should have worded it gooderer then i dun. 



    Have you ever been fake engaged for just a few hours on AnswerMug and then had the fake marriage, fake cheating, fake divorce, REALLY fake alimony and fake getting back together, all within a few days?



    ~
      August 11, 2019 9:26 AM MDT
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  • Its you, not me.

    Stop clinging and take it like a man.
      August 11, 2019 9:38 AM MDT
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  • 52936
    That’s twice you omitted the apostrophe. I don’t even know who you are any more. Don’t ever try to find me!




    ~
      August 11, 2019 10:16 AM MDT
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  • WHAT ABOUT OUR BABY'S ?
      August 11, 2019 10:23 AM MDT
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  • 52936
    (babies)

    I “fake forgot” to tell you that I had a vasectomy years ago. Any fake babies you have from the fake relationship with me are a fake result of your fake cheating, even though you fake accused me of fake being the one who fake cheated on you. Faker. 

    Fake Randolph Jr. 
    ~
      August 11, 2019 12:45 PM MDT
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  • I checked on your bogus vasectomy at Our Lady of Antarctica Hospital For the Lame.  Dr. Fugazi removed your kidney instead - because fake emergency.

    So get back here and pay unreal sums to raise your alleged spawn : 




    Lonnie and Lunette ( aka Randy's results)
      August 11, 2019 2:47 PM MDT
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  • 52936

      Wait, what?  So that's why I never feel full whenever I eat kidney beans!  As for Lunchette and Laundromat over there, I don't recognize them at all. My blood type is root beer, and my DNA matches the bar code on the grammar encyclopedia. If they don't match that, see your last ex before me. 
    ~

    This post was edited by Randy D at August 11, 2019 5:25 PM MDT
      August 11, 2019 4:26 PM MDT
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  • 10026
    I don't know Randy.  I hate to intrude but I must.  He looks exactly how I picture you AND he has a sandwich-in-hand.
    How much more can you ask for a mini-you??

      August 12, 2019 1:39 AM MDT
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  • 52936

      I plead the fifth until the DNA results come back, Merlie. 

    ~
      August 12, 2019 6:09 AM MDT
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  • It was HOURS, not days.

    Thank god I'm shallow selfish.
      August 11, 2019 4:14 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    nonononononono

    You remind me of a person on here who's name rhymes with dropwith. 

    You start out so strong.  But you forget.  I am here.  I am not only a grammarian, I can THINK, I can wait, I can fast till the cows come home.

    My point is, that you did not address the part of the question about who initiated.  WHOM.   ????

    So, it is not over between you two.  You both NEED ME to clarify life for you both.
      August 11, 2019 4:41 PM MDT
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  • You only get the initiation when you pay for the membership 
      August 11, 2019 4:45 PM MDT
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  • 10026
    I have to giggle.  ;) :)  Shhhh!
      August 12, 2019 1:40 AM MDT
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  • 52936
    (who's whose)

    Take that, fake grammarian!
    ~
      August 11, 2019 4:49 PM MDT
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  • 52936

    (tiil 'til)
      August 11, 2019 4:54 PM MDT
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  • 7776
    I was with this person 12 years before we got married. After that period, we finally got married and it didn't last 3 months. The thing was that she got a divorce, but didn't tell me. A very messy period in my life that I don't wish to discuss any further.
      August 11, 2019 10:19 AM MDT
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  • 9874
    Does it count if only one person thinks they are in a romantic relationship?
      August 11, 2019 10:25 AM MDT
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  • 52936
      That never happens; quit being silly. 


    ~
      August 11, 2019 12:47 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    11 months.  He initiated, I kept it going.  Till I didn't.  
      August 11, 2019 4:30 PM MDT
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