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"What does he see in her"? "What does she see in him"? How often have you wondered that about others? Any theories?

Posted - March 16, 2017

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  • 14795
    Love is blind Rosie.......and also completly intoxicating.....lol
      March 16, 2017 6:34 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    If you're lucky it not only lasts but grows deeper with time NJ.  Thank you for your reply and Happy Friday! :)
      March 17, 2017 7:37 AM MDT
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  • 2658
    Our perception of others influences the way we see them. IMO, education plays a big part in that, along with past upbringing.

    I'm reminded of what Dakota Staton asked in this song. (a favorite of mine)) This post was edited by Beans/SilentGeneration at March 17, 2017 7:37 AM MDT
      March 16, 2017 7:06 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    Thank you for your reply Beans and the video. Happy Friday to you m'dear! :)
      March 17, 2017 7:37 AM MDT
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  • Sure it may cross my mine but I do know that people do not see things the same so I choose not to dwell on that.
      March 16, 2017 8:43 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    Sometimes you like one part of a couple and not so much the other one. I don't mean YOU specifically of course. I mean "one likes". Thank you for your reply Swoop and Happy Friday! :)
      March 17, 2017 7:38 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    ive wondered about it but i dont have an answer to that
      March 16, 2017 4:36 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Occasionally.

    But I learned long ago that a breast fed baby who had a good child hood may have had a mother who had long hair and it brushed over the child when he was being held and fed.

    And for that reason alone, he may be partial to a girl with long hair for reasons he might not understand.

    Point---"behavior is over-determined."

    Seldom do we do "human" things for only one reason.  (As opposed to driving a car just to get to work.) This post was edited by tom jackson at March 17, 2017 7:39 AM MDT
      March 16, 2017 4:55 PM MDT
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  • 113301
    Thank you for your thoughtful answer tom and Happy Friday. Sometimes you like both of the people who are coupled and sometimes you like only one. That's when I wonder why? :)
      March 17, 2017 7:40 AM MDT
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