Are you a good liddle boy and a good liddle girl always minding your p's and q's and always conforming to what others say you are allowed/disallowed to do? WHY do you allow other people to configure what you say/do? Makes no sense to me to say what others approve of your saying rather than what YOU think. Crazy wackadoodles are always out there ordering a menu of what pertains to you and boy oh boy you'd better stick to that menu they created for you OR ELSE!
Different strokes. It is what it is. Everyone says so! Freedom to speak as long as you approve. Otherwise stifle it. Sheesh. Dumb prevails and rises to the top no matter what.