Must he have EVERYONE DO EVERYTHNG FOR HIM OR HE WON'T SURVIVE OR FUNCTION?
How long will he require having someone else change his diapers? Seriously folks this a picture of arrested development. Da big cheese never got beyond the bottle and thumb sucking and hissy fitting and tantrumming.
What you see is a 400 lb 74 or 75 year old INFANT. He does nothing for himself and requires being taken care of 24/7. You asked for it you got it.