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Allegedly domestic abuse is increasing due to Covid 19. WHY DO WOMEN MARRY MEN WHO USE THEM FOR PUNCHING BAGS?

What is WRONG with those women who choose those men to marry live with hook up with?

Mentally ill for sure. Who in his/her RIGHT MIND would choose to hook up with someone who took frustration out on them? Masochists who believe they DESERVE the abuse or it is always their fault for saying the wrong thing or doing the wrong which triggers the beating?

So they are not only victim they are enablers facilitators defenders excusers? That must be a wonderful environment in which to raise children. Getting to watch daddy beat the crap out of mummy because the mashed potatoes were lumpy?

Posted - May 10, 2020
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  • 34634
    They have been abused to the point they have no self esteem and believe they can do no better. They believe it is their fault.  

    They need help and counseling. 
      May 10, 2020 6:58 AM MDT
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  • 10694
    Some women believe they can change the man (not possible) and so they won't leave.
    Some women have low self esteem (he's better than no one) and so they won't leave
    Some women believe that they deserve to be beat (???) and so they wont leave.
    Some women believe that they can't survive by themselves (need his economic support) and so they stay.

    Men who hit women are insecure and controlling. 

    Some think it's their right to hit (they own the woman). 
    Some have violent tendencies and hit without thinking.
    Some were raised in an environment were women were treated as inferiors; that they were superior to women.


    Sometimes the signs of an abuser are there, but the other person doesn't or refuses to see them. 
      May 10, 2020 10:16 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    I always worry about what that kind of life does to the children. An adult has a RIGHT to be beaten to death if that is what she believes she deserves but she has NO RIGHT to subject her chldren to that. Such women shuuld be barren sterile and not be allowed to adopt let alone bear children. I'm gonna ask. Wonder how many will DEFEND the woman and insist she has a right to have children and subject them to what she wants. We'll see. Thank you for your reply Shuhak and Happy Monday! :)
      May 11, 2020 2:05 AM MDT
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