Or they say "who cares?" Or they say "why are you asking such a question?" or they say "I don't share such things with anyone".
Now how is any of that useful helpful valuable worthwhile to anyone? What is the point of any of it? How does it advance a discussion in any positive way?
I DON'T GET IT. You?
Now if someone says "I don't know but here is what I think" that's of value. Weird. What motivates people? I'm going to ask.