Some folks never take the time to think about whom they are, who is it they want to be, are they contributing as much as they are taking? Is the path they are on the right one for them?
Never ever ever dare they do that. So they join everything they can and fill up every spare minute with demands on their time so they don't have any time at all to self-assess. What a mess.
Are you afraid to stop and smell the roses? Are you afraid if you leave the crowd for a moment someone else will take your place and you will be out on your own? Are you afraid to shift into a different gear...go down an unknown path to just see what's there? Is solitude and solitary what you fear most?