If something/someone doesn't work out the way you hoped do you destroy and move on or just move on?

If I can't have you no one can! KABOOM!

The insane jealous lover murders.

The insane jealous politician will destroy before he moves on. Pollute. Poison. Shred. Blow up.

They're all alike in the dark aren't they? The insane jealous madmen? Madwomen too. If I can't have you no one can. KABOOM!