Would that be a solution to mitigating the deception?
BEGIN with friendship. A long loving lasting coupling has to be based on friendship. You can be sexually turned on bigly but it won't last if that's all there is to it. The next sexy target is just waiting to nail you. Sex appeal allure WANES. Friendship based on liking STRENGTHENS oven time.
Be coupled with a dear friend. How can you lie to , cheat on, betray that relationship?