Some folks believe that relationships can't be maintained unless you are willing to "work hard" at them or "work" at them. So they LIE?

Have you ever withheld your truth to keep the peace in a relationship? Do you think that's normal and proper and wise?

I don't. If a relationship can't handle the truth and survive and thrive it isn't worth much. That is what is true for me and me is all I can talk about. I NEVER worked hard at any relationship. NEVER. If they faded so what? They weren't meant to be. I cannot imagine withholding my truth to stay in a relationship. That's not me. Is that you? Is that what YOU do?