You can't win. You are DAM*ED if you do and DAM*ED if you don't.
No one likes the dad who says NO MORE and means it. Tough bananas. Someone at some time HAD TO SAY NO and it was JOE. GET OVER IT. Fer cryin' out loud. WE fought 20 years. The Afghans wouldn't even fight a day. They just stopped fighting and rolled over. What are we supposed to do with that?