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relavee

have you ever been cheated on? what was the aftermath?

Posted - December 22, 2016
Tags : infidelity cheating depression

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  • 46117
    Which time?
      December 22, 2016 2:41 AM MST
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  • Sorry to hear that S. That gave me a sad feeling in the stomach.
      December 23, 2016 1:55 AM MST
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  • Yes, twice... both times someone I trusted.. I can *read* people and knew these people had that danger but I hoped they wouldn't.  I am a give them enough rope and let them hang themselves type.. they both hanged themselves... was i at fault for giving them enough rope? Maybe... but they had choices... they failed...and now they are EX which in one of the cases was, I am sure, not the intention... Now I don't mean to sound harsh, and both cases were complicated... but in my defence both broke my heart... 
      December 22, 2016 3:16 AM MST
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  • Sorry that happened to you.
    You were NOT at fault for giving them enough rope. No way. They didn't have to take it.
      December 22, 2016 6:32 PM MST
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  • 16
    it isn't your fault for trusting them assuming that's what you meant. they should have been able to control themselves and do the right thing if they cared about you. they were humans, they shouldn't need to be kept on a chain like a dog to do the right thing This post was edited by relavee at December 23, 2016 9:17 PM MST
      December 23, 2016 12:39 AM MST
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  • Certainly you Must know you weren't at fault, Day.
      December 23, 2016 1:53 AM MST
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  • 3523
    She is ancient history.
      December 22, 2016 8:32 PM MST
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  • 34283
    Not to my knowledge.
      December 22, 2016 8:46 PM MST
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  • 9
    Yes, a few times. It ended the relationship. I always told myself I never want to inflict such pain on anyone else.
      December 22, 2016 9:00 PM MST
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  • 16
    It really is an awful feeling..
      December 23, 2016 12:35 AM MST
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  • Yes I was. But I don't blame her. Sometimes you can only push a body so far before it reacts. Sometimes in not the best ways.
      December 23, 2016 1:58 AM MST
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  • Yes and could never fully trust him again but did stay with him for 6 more years...
      December 26, 2016 9:51 PM MST
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