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I will say (and have done so): "You shouldn't tell me what I should or should not do."
I ask them to justify their POV..
I say "bug off". Not in those exact words but I get the point across. How arrogant is that anyway? Thank you for your reply ele! :)
I just tell them to BUG OFF. If I want opinions/advice I will ask for them. Unsolicited? Not my cuppa tea. Thank you for your reply Adam! :)
Either mind your own business or thank them for putting me back in the boat. it of course is a situational response that could go either way.
Well my way of thinking is that they might have some legitimate points.. They might tell me some things that might be true and coming to know my faults might then help me change a few things and make the way i go about things better..
If they cannot back up their POV on me then it might cause them to feel some guilt because they have falsely accused someone who was not guilty of their accusations.. Or failing that their accusations will lose their bite because they fail to back up their claim with facts..
