Some say talking about problems exacerbate them. Well how in the he** do you solve a problem without talking about it? What miracle occurs that renders saying/doing nothing a solution to anything?

There is a Way to talk about a problem that works in a positive way towards overcoming a problem..

And then there is the Us vs Them, divisive, inflammatory, confrontational way of talking that just whips up anger and fear and puts both sides into confrontation mode..