Some folks only speak up when they are anti something. You never hear from them if they are pro. Which leads one to the conclusion that they are very anti 24/7. Are your antis and pros balanced?

I always try to be more pro. But some people can only see the glass half full and see faults in everything others do.

They seem to have an agenda to always point those faults out every chance they get.

My definition is irrelevant. Your definition is what matters Mog and what interests me. Happy Tuesday to thee.

Here's what I think m'dear. I have a few folks who only show up to insult me or the question I've asked or both if I get really "lucky". They never deviate from that pattern. Whether they do that with everyone or just me I don't know. I can only go by my experience with them. So I conclude they are anti-everything since that is all I ever see. I can only go by how they treat me. Thank you for your reply Lulu'sMom and Happy Tuesday to thee! :)

Hello Rosie:

Oh, I LOVE warm puppies and walks on the beach. Do you wanna puke yet??

excon

I speak up when I am pro-something as well as when I am anti-something, so I would say my antis and pros are balanced.

Happy Tuesday, Rosie!:)

I am sorry to hear that Rosie because you ask such good questions.

I am sure JA can help you with that. She has been a big help to me when I needed it.

That is very sweet of you. I appreciate it. But I just ignore them. If I see their Answermug monikers among my alerts every morning first thing I delete them unread. I don't care what they say. It is of no interest or use or help to  me. Then if I encounter them on one of my question threads while responding to someone else I just skip over the post and never read it. What I don't read does not exist and if it doesn't exist I am not bothered by it . I learned to do that long ago. At first I tried  to discuss it with them but  once I discovered they had no interest in discussing anything positive I moved on. It 's sad that negativity is all that some folks have to offer. I actually feel sorry for them and I am very grateful I am not like them. Oh. JA already offered to help out but I respectfully declined her kind offer. She has enough on her plate. She doesn't need to worry about me.  Thank you for your reply Lulu'sMom and Happy Wednesday to thee! :) Thank you for the compliment as well. I appreciate it and appreciate your answers! :) ((hugs))

I am a huge Charles Schulz fan. Years ago when Jim and I visited his son who used to live in Oregon we stopped in Santa Rosa and spent the night. The next day we visited the Charles Schulz Museum and had coffee at   the Snoopy diner. Through a window we could see folks ice skating. I think it was the Snoopy ice skating rink. Mr. Schulz had died and there was a lone table set up and roped off. On it was a vase with a single rose. That was the table at which Mr. Schulz sat every morning drinking coffee, reading the paper and watching the skaters. I have a Snoopy magnet on my fridge. We visited the Snoopy gift shop. I bought the book he wrote. "Happiness is warm puppy".  I am a Scorpio and I LOVE walks on the beach. Neither make me barf/upchuck/puke/vomit/regurgitate. Thank you for your reply excon and Happy Wednesday.

I think that's great Andy. Balance in life is very desirable and I am constantly seeking it. Thank you for your answer! :)

Hee hee...every site has them Rosie.  Not sure why some seem to always answer like a little black cloud.  Maybe being "pleasant" is just not their personality.  We all know curmudgeons in our real life.  Guess it comes out here too.

I personally am more likely answer a question that I am on the "pro" side of.

I think for some people their passions are stirred ONLY  WHEN THEY ARE  ANTI. Not when they are pro. Which is kinda surprising. Thank you for your reply PeaPod! :)

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