A real friend does not make time for you, they give you theirs. A friend is like a four leaf clover hard to find but lucky to keep.
This post was edited by Beans/SilentGeneration at September 22, 2017 9:41 PM MDT
Communicate. Truth is it won't help. If people don't realize they are low-end contributors I don't think you are going to fix them. If they do realize it, I don't think you are going to fix those guys either. Only you know how much of the relationship you want to carry by yourself. They are never 50/50 I believe. Some people like having the most responsibility because they feel that gives them more power. People are all different. Sorry to be a pessimist here, but that's the way I see it. I'm not naturally pessimistic.
This post was edited by Thriftymaid at September 23, 2017 1:14 PM MDT
Don't give or do more than what makes you happy. Accept the other person for who they are. Relationships/friendships are rarely equal. If you're both getting what you want and need, then all is well. If not, then, move on.
I'm not sure I would want to waste time "fixing" a relationship where the other person doesn't really want to contribute. I would just let it doe a natural death and move on.
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