Hi Rosie, I would rather know if I was betrayed. Preferring not to know is akin to sticking your head in the sand and can lead to more betrayal, in my opinion.
Hi PC! How are thee? Well there are some things I would rather not know. The knowing is hurtful and didn't really enhance my life at all in any way. When all you get from knowledge is pain I don't see the point of it. Ah. Another question to ask. Different strokes. Thank you for your reply and Happy Tuesday! Hope things have been going for you and yours m'dear! :)
You said there are some things you would rather not know, and while I understand that, unfortunately you can only make those determinations AFTER the fact and by then it's too late. There are some betrayals, however, where it's vital that we know because only then can we make the changes necessary and decide to confront the situation/person or avoid it in the future.
I can't argue with the fact that some knowledge is painful, but you can also gain strength and learn valuable lessons along the way.