That's wonderful Lulu'sMom! While Jim and my son are fine gentleman I think the finest gentleman I ever knew was my dad too. He NEVER was disrespectful to or about anyone. I don't recall his ever having an unkind word to say about anyone. What he said that I still remember is that "most people try to do their best. It's just that some people's best isn't very good". That stuck with me. Also he'd say "consider the source". That was it. That said everything. One doesn't need to elaborate or go into excruciating detail. Just consider the source and that explains all you need to know about anyone. Thank you for your reply and Happy Tuesday! :)