Discussion»Statements»Rosie's Corner» Are you always cordial, friendly, kind? Are you the kind of person others LOVE to spend time with or do they avoid you? Do you know why?
Yes. But people here at the office see me as aloof because I try to be businesslike and efficient rather than complain and dish the dirt and hash over pop culture and the latest trends with them.
At work I think being professional is ALWAYS best. When I worked I was cordial but I did not invite gossip. I did not invite small talk. I always had tons of work to do and when my door was closed NO ONE bothered me. It meant I was not available unless it was an emergency. You have to respect boundaries. Everyone is getting paid to do the job for which he/she was hired. It can be done in a cordial way without going overboard. Did I ever have good friends at work? Yes. But they always respected the way I worked. At work was one thing. Outside of work was entirely different. We owed it to our employer to do the best job we could. Thank you for your reply officegirl and Happy Tuesday! :) I think we would have made good co-workers.