So they want to control what you ask, what you say and what you think as well as how you feel because they are experts. They tell you to back off, back down, move on because they are no longer interested in what you have to say. Who asked them? If they lose interest why don't THEY move on, back off, back down? Anyone have a clue?
It is not mentally healthy to hurt the one you love and make life so much harder than it needs to be.
Maybe the person is in Love and is waiting for the other person to wake up, smell the roses and lighten up.
Apologies MS but I see zero correlation between my question and your answer. Clearly we are not on the same page here. Thank you for your reply.