So that means the donjohn dad is afraid of his kids and couldn't do it on his alone? He doesn't want to be the bad dad. This way he blames it on Kelly but it's what he wanted. So the kids were there not at his invitation but because of their assumption they could do whatever they wanted? Weird isn't it when the "leader" of a country cannot manage his own family or say "no" to them? Weird. Brave not so much. Cowardly. Pretty much.