The wealthy dine on welfare only it is called tax cuts/tax loopholes/tax subsidies/graft/corruption. What's in a name?

It's OK to get free stuff of you  are wealthy and don't need it and it's horrendous to get free stuff if you are in dire straights and need it. The American way. The body politic. The way things are. Rich is better. The rich are always the screwers and the poor are always the screwees. WHY?