You vow to stay married "till death us do part". It should be restated to include "or you cheat on me"! Whatcha think?

Well I never vowed any such thing when we were married and these days I think most couples write their own vows.  I can't really throw stones because I have been a "cheater" before I was married and from a certain point of view still am though with my husband's permission. People "cheat" - we are not perfect, make of it what you will.  Really as long as I am #1 I want my husband to be happy doing what he likes best.  If I am no longer "#1" I will be gone sooner than you can blink an eye.