If you aren't your brother's keeper no one is yours either. If you can do it on your own all alone anyone can. Sink or Swim?

If you drown so what? It means you just couldn't hack it. You just didn't have "the right stuff". No one's fault but yours. Tough bananas! If you swim good for you. You get all the kudos and awards and goodies in life. It's only fair. Correct?