You walk different roads/paths until you find the one that is most pleasing. You try on different clothes until you find the ones that fit. What makes sense to you may not be what makes sense to me. That is called variety and it's a good thing. What's not good is when we go to war to make "the other" conform to what we believe and like and wish and prefer and want. Why do people do that when it is always doomed to fail?