Style/MO. We each have one vis a vis how we communicate with one another. Some try to change the MO of others. NERVY ain't it?

It is so simple.

If you don't like it avoid it or ignore it or both

If you do then engage  but don't try to change it

Either or. YOU are in control. What's the problem not getting it? It ain't brain surgery. It doesn't take a genius to comprehend that.