How can you challenge people for how they choose to describe themselves? Don't THEY know better than you do whom they are and what they represent? I don't get it. Maya Angelou said "when people tell you whom they are BELIEVE THEM". I believe them and I'm not about to lecture them at all about anything. I don't get those who do. They are fighting to preserve the WHITE. They are terrified of being swallowed up by people of color and becoming homogenized into a very nice and very becoming soft brown.