There are some folks who will decide whom you are based on a very small part and lock in on that and never see the rest of you. Why is that?

Once they decide whom you they are consistently blind to what else there is. It never connects or records or tracks. The antenna only ever go up when that tiny part of you that they think is all of you shows up. Very limited perception. Based on what? Need to believe that is all there is of you? Why?