Are you a "YOUNG" oldster or an old middleager? Do you still take great delight in life or have you given up on that and now just sit and wait and wonder rather than do? Do you participate or sit on the sidelines and criticize those who do? Have you become a different self than you were when younger or is the content the same and only the packaging has changed? Are you more often happy or more often not? Who is to "blame" for that state of your being?