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i prefer right now...
that's all there is
I would connect to the past and ask my mom and dad and grandparents all about their lives in Armenia and Turkey. I know so little about it and of course it is too late to do so now. "Now" may be all there is at the present but it isn't by any means all that was or will be. Have you no curiosity about your parents' lives or do you know every thing about them and your ancestors? . Also I have never met Jim's mom. She died before we met. He is always talking about how great her cornbread was. I have tried over the years countless times to make cornbread he'd like. I would give anything to get her recipe. Also how she prepared fried okra that wasn't slimy and they had an apricot tree in the backyard and she would make apricot turnovers. But then I'm a Foodie you see so it would mean nothing to you. Different strokes Baba. I am infinitely curious about many things I guess you aren't. Thank you for your reply and Happy Wednesday.