What I think is disgusting others may think of as very entertaining. You can't template OFFENSIVE. You just do your best to not offend. Yes?

You cannot possibly know where the "sensitive" areas are in everyone and please everyone. All you can do is set up some kind of guidelines and work from them. They will never be perfect until and unless everyone thinks the same and feels the same about everything all the time. What you like I can't stand and vicey versey. Not your fault. Not mine either. It JUST IS.