It is always up to you whatchure gonna do. So what have you decided? To go along to get along. Look the other way. Pretend everything is hunky dory and okey dokey. That GOD is in HIS heaven and all is right with the world? To cherish dementia don inside out and upside down because he is a gift from GOD in your opinion. Choices. You've made yours already. Are they immutable?