He might have been lovey dovey and sweet and kind and good and swell as he**. But whatever it was he was all hs is to me is the evil monster who was insane who was behind the holocaust.
I think of dementia don and it is not so clear. He is guilty of so many atrocities that I cannot focus on just or the worst. Many are the worst.
If he was ever lovey dovey and sweet and kind and good and swell as he** I don't care. What he is now and what he has done by far outstrips anything he might inadvertently done that benefitted others.
So how do you perceive people? By their worst acts or their best? Why?