"She really wanted it". The "it" being whatever the guy did to her. That "belief"" gets them off the hook if "she asked for it"! Right?

Could women "ask for it" and "really really want it" and be totally unaware of it?

They think they are being ravaged and damaged and assaulted but deep down the ravager rapist KNOWS SHE WANTS IT?

If true how does anyone know anything at any time about anything ever?

Which brings up another question which I am forced to ask.