We have different views of what an asset is or a liability. One size does not fit all but wouldn't it be great if it did? If we all worked on the same level playing field of values and beliefs and ideals?
Some believe being a very good liar is a necessary asset to be a success. Some think liars are never successful no matter how much money they have or power. Both are true. Weird.
Success is a coat of many colors. Some colors blend/complement and some colors clash. Long ago MUMUS were in style. A big billowy garment women could wear to hide their bodies. You never knew what was underneath it! Mostly I think larger than they'd like to be ladies wore them most. Shapely women had no need to hide anything. Think MUMUS will ever return?
What kind of frock garment do men have to wear to hide their size? Anything comparable to a MUMU? Men wear billowy garments in different countries. Long flowing robes. Not very masculine but it is the culture. I wonder why hot desert livers wore so many clothes? Didn't that exacerbate discomfort when it go to be 120 in the shade? How does wearing lots of heavy long clothes in such heat help a body?