Being a PERFECTIONIST in am imperfect world must be very daunting. Striving to achieve the impossible? How frustrating is THAT?

Can a PERFECTIONIST and one who isn't achieve long-lasting happiness together?

Sure. That's Jim and me. He is the perfectionist. I'm not. Here we are still together 23 years later.

Is your story the same? One of you is and one of you ain't isn't a perfectionist?