We become invisible as we get older. Folks look right through you and don't see you. Shout and yell to get attention. Ya hafta. Do you?

I believe I outage you E. There are people who never see me. There are some who do. We connect. We make eye contact. They smile/I smile or I smile/they smile. Then we speak. This is how I have developed very friendly acquaintanceships at all the markets I frequent. We are on a HUGGING basis. I know their names, their concerns their joys their despairs. We chat. I worry when I don't see them and they worry if Jim and I are not there on our usual day.They are very friendly and inviting places to be for me. Also I think unless a dame is a hot sexy broad people don't even see her at whatever age. I have zero problem with that. My hot babe days never existed. I had my share of admirers. No complaints. I am beyond that but I am not beyond noticing when I am not noticed at all. That's why BERNIE SHOUTS AND YELLS all the time. To get attention. Otherwise? Thank you for your reply. Seeking attention is not the same thing as not wanting to be invisible. My take on it. Yours may differ. Gender? I dunno. It is what it is. This post was edited by RosieG at February 20, 2020 7:49 AM MST