If i were uploading a video to the site it gives me an option to grab a video off of my desktop. If I try to upload a video on my desktop to my blog, It does not give me that option, So how do i get a video, on my desktop to load into my Blog???
I think you're mistaken. We don't host video files here. You can upload something from YouTube or similar source here, but you can't upload from your desktop to us. The difference is in how the data is stored. We won't keep video files, even if you post something from YouTube. The data is there, your link just makes it show up here.
As long as you can upload it to anywhere, You can share the link you get from there. and also use it as an embedded video on any site that permit them.