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If you knew THEN what you know NOW would you have said it/done it anyway? Why?

Posted - August 2, 2020

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    If I had known then what I know now, I probably wouldn’t have been in a position then to need to know what I know now.  Either I would have had the knowledge how to avoid that situation, or, because of that knowledge, I would have made different decisions earlier, which wouldn’t have led me to have to make the one I am now ruing. 

    Hindsight is tricky.  Each decision we make brings us to where we are now.   In terms of location, what we possess, who we know, and even what we know.   Unweave just one decision (bad or good) and we would be going down a different path.   

    Example - “Had I known Amazon stock was going to be so lucrative, I would have bought stock in it when it first came out.” 

    Say someone came back in time and told you Amazon was going to be a “goldmine”.  Now say you listened to them and bought stock.  Does that mean you’d be a millionaire now?  Maybe, maybe not.  Having spent that money on stock meant you didn’t have it for something else.  This month’s rent?  Flowers for your girlfriend who you had pissed-off earlier?  You may have stock in a fledgling company, but your decision to purchase it sent you down a different path.  Perhaps on this path, your landlord kicked you out and you had to sell the stock at a lesser price in order to afford another place to live.  Or perhaps your girlfriend dumped you instead of marrying you.  Perhaps you hung on to the stock “at all costs”.  What were those “costs”?  Different friends?  Different job?  Different or no spouse?  Each decision sent you down a different path.  All because you knew then what you know now.

      August 2, 2020 5:48 PM MDT
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    Very true what you say  m'dear. Very true. You can never know if a different decision would have been better for you even though we all do say or think "If I had only......". Jim does that a lot. I don't. When he says his "if only..." I say how do you know THAT decision wouldn't have turned out for the worst? Which is what you wrote. Thing is we can never know that. To keep batting yourself over a "bad" decision doesn't make a whole lot of sense but surprisingly people do that to themselves. I guess it's a "human" thing. There is this theory or whatever you call it that every possible decision you COULD HAVE made is made in some other dimension and so in many worlds you live the consequences of all those other decisions. That's a bridge a bit too far even for me but mebbe? Thank you for your thoughtful reply Shuhak. I think as usual you covered the subject extremely well. I do regret being mean though. I can be and I have been and I shouldn't have been and sometimes I still am. Too soon old. Too late schmart! Happy Monday m'dear. STAY SAFE! :) This post was edited by RosieG at August 3, 2020 11:26 AM MDT
      August 3, 2020 1:34 AM MDT
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